Have you ever been in a condition where people around you continually criticized you?
“Hey, you’re getting fatter now”
“Hey, you look old-fashion wearing that kind of dress”
“Hey, look! Your face is too pallid what beauty product do you apply”
“Hey, you suitable to use this one, this one, this one, and this one”
“Blah… Blah… Blah…”
Those will be normal thing, if those are conveyed occasionally. Then how if those kind of words convey couple of times. Are those normal things?
What shoud be done?
If you’re in those kind of situations, the thing you must do is “COVER YOUR EARS POLITELY”. It doesn’t mean you don’t appreciate them. It doesn’t mean you don’t respect them. It doesn’t mean you don’t acknowledge them. It is because you can never be controlled by them. Only you know the best about your circumstances. You might be sad and hurt but REMEMBER “Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala gives everything in you at the best level and portion”. Never be angry, upset and even discourage with their troublesome. They haven’t just known how to praise you.
Cover your ears and go one step further,
Cover your ears and prove it to them,
Cover your ears and smile at them,
One thing you need to realize that they want you get your best and don’t hate them. Keep smiling in as much as your existence still has a lot of influence around you. Don’t be afraid, if they are still nagging. You are the only one who understand your heart well. Dont avenge the ugliness with ugliness.
As the word of Ali bin Abi Thalib Radhiyallahu’anhu:
“THE BEST REVENGE IS MAKING YOURSELF BETTER.”